The importance of tough love

​Sometimes in life decisions are hard to make and sometimes communication is hard to do as well because we don’t want to upset anyone or have to deal with consequences.  However, when we make decisions or choose to communicate out of love, it’s always good and things will work out.  How can anyone fault a person for looking after their best interest?  I know it happens but I’m just saying. 
 
Sometimes when we give good advice, we get blamed because people don’t want to hear something that will take them out of their comfort zone.  We all have a call to l love our neighbor and that means tough love.  We all are here to learn and grow on our journey and if people don’t tell us right from wrong, how can we grow?  Some people don’t take criticism well but when this happens, it’s definitely a reason to show tough love even more.  When we do communicate things out, sometimes we end up hurting because it appears to look like it’s causing problems but for real it’s showing Gods love and wisdom.  Most of the time this happens in our own families or the people who we are close to at the time.
 
We all make mistakes and we’re here to grow in the Name of Jesus and give hope to all around us to become more holy and more like JESUS one day at a time.  If people can’t take criticism or love, that’s not our fault and we shouldn’t feel bad about it at all.  However, we should pray for ourselves, them and whoever is impacted by the entire situation.
 
I’m going through a situation now where I spoke to someone about something out of love and really had the best interest for all and I was looked at like I was totally wrong.  I know sometimes people don’t see eye to eye but love is love and we all know when we’re not doing that to one another.  All I know is when we take God out of our lives, we become stressed and this stops us from serving the mission set by God.  This world is not about me or you but about being a disciple to all.
 
Please pray for me because it’s tough but I know that I did the right thing and I hope and pray that the person learns to accept that Love and take that opportunity to grow within.  Decisions are tough, communication is sometimes tough to have but if we don’t love even when we know it may hurt then what are we doing on our journey.
 
Amen and Thank You Jesus